Ngie wrote:
About (true) enlightenment, I see it rather like a skill to develop with keeping an open faithful mind (ouverture d'esprit) so that not to lose it.
There are different interpretations of the word
enlightenment. Hence before discussing it it's important to define it.
Which btw. reminds me of the philosophy student who wanted to discuss some of his theories with a mathematics student. The math guy broke it all down into definitions till there was nothing left to discuss. The philosopher had been enlightened but was also slightly depressed now as he's been put out of work.Poor guy, I still fell a bit ashamed about it.Ngie wrote:
At first it comes by surprise, if it happens in similar situations we may try to recreate the same conditions then expect it to happen again. Many people have tried to find a method to it. Religions is the nest for this turn of things. Yet they generally fail to it
Some religions, especially the institutionalized ones, strike me as way to blur things. They're more about politics.
And sometimes religion just makes people believe that they're a the good ones and thus they don't even start to think about all the bad stuff they're doing.
Which reminds me of:
So in general the mind is not be trusted. But when one knows that and has some training to use that knowledge, one might be able to get along with it.
But then the mind isn't all crap. Eg. one can solve problems by focusing on 'em for a while and a few minutes, hours or a day later, the subconsciousness will ring a bell and pop up with a nice solution. An open mind is required for this to work.
Without ouverture d'esprit, the mind will always stay way behind its potential. And to achieve this kind of
enlightenment everybody has to find her/his own way I guess. Asking questions and thinking is a good way to start. An old lady once told me, that the brain is like a muscle which needs to be trained. But! Recent research concluded that doing crosswords just trains the brain for doing crosswords!
Ngie wrote:
The effect of surprise seems to me an important part of it, like the gifts someone can make to someone else, like the way a child looks.
Oh! It certainly helps to focus or to start a new train of thought. I recently got a copy of The Sisterhood's "
Gift" and especially the song "Finland Red,
Egypt White" gave me something to think about... where was I?Ngie wrote:
I believe that we put our own limits/boundaries How do we know our own minds ? It requires at least two persons for that.
It's hard to see the outside of a house when you're inside it. Another person passing by might indeed be helpfull:
"Hey! What does the house I live in look like?"
"It looks like shite!"
"Whew! Thanks a alot! Up yours!"
Well, yes, a minimum two people.
Ngie wrote:
Do we need to know if we are realy aware and in control of our thoughts and actions and what for?
Yes. And the "need" here is "human curiosity". And Neuroscience is making big steps forward since they're using computers to examine the data or to even simulate neurons. It will also put Psychology and Psychoanalysis on a sound basis.
Ngie wrote:
"We all work on instinct, like it or not."
When we don't like what our instincts (mostly because of the others) we can go against them.. or do otherwise for our relationships.
Instincts are important and not to be ignored. But in our modern society they sometimes come up with the wrong message. So before shouting at your next man or even giving him a free face massage, on 2nd thought, a kind word might also be a good idea. You can still beat him up to pulp if he refuses to listen.
Ngie wrote:
Since making a baby is not something wanted in the first place very often, cleanliness stays a safer way than dirt, especially because smells can be a reason to run away fast from possible partner.
As with all things, a healthy balance must be found.
“You are going to women? Do not forget to wash!”
Ngie wrote:
As for perfumes unless it really melts well with the skin it is not necessary to use one. All it does is hide the original fragrance of the individual.
And thus resulting in offspring like weebleswooble.
